If you can see this I have a challenge for you that can break you FREE of your patterns!
There is an episode of Seinfeld called “Opposite Day”
where the goofy character George does the OPPOSITE of what he would normally do in every area of his life
He realized that every decision he’s ever made is “wrong” and Jerry recommends instead he does the opposite and then that should be “right”
And as he does that… AMAZING things start to happen
So for lunch that day he orders the OPPOSITE of what he normally orders, goes up to a beautiful woman and says the opposite of what he would normally say…
“Im unemployed and I live with my parents”
And she’s into him!
He has an interview to work at the Yankees stadium and tells the manager exactly what he’s doing wrong and is brutally honest
And he gets the job!
Everything starts to work for George as he STOP performing and embraces honestly
It also works because he breaks OUT of his old patterns
This is something I teach in my events and programs…
When you begin to apply the “Opposite Day effect” to your life…
It will feel like you are doing something “bad”
A part of you early on may have learned it was GOOD to abandon you, GOOD to be “nice” and please people, etc
To break the pattern commit to being BAD and embrace being authentic
Ask that person out, be honest, share a boundary, put yourself out there, etc
And then sit with the tension knowing it is THEIR tension not yours to manage
I was at the gym recently and someone came up to me to tell me that my recent content on embracing the DARK side changed his life
When you embrace yours, you will become FREE
The Opposite Day effect can be a powerful tool for breaking out
Anyways how can you apply “the Opposite Day effect” to your life this week?
I challenge you to try it!
Post in the comments and share what happens!